This person can make you so mad, to the point where you would raise your voice & argue, to the point where you’re saying all types of things out of anger, to the point where you would start tearing up, to the point where you feel like you want nothing to do with them. But, once you calm down, once you look at them, all those feelings come back & you know you don’t want to lose them. It’s crazy how the person who can upset you the most is also who can make you the happiest.
Mom:Yeah, but you loved him too much. You never let a guy know you love him more than anything. Because then they won't care if they hurt you, because they know you love him. They know you're not gonna do anything about it. Once they know they have control over you, is when they start using it against you and take you for granted. He won't care what he does to you, because he knows you care enough to stay with him no matter what he puts you through.
Me:But what if you love someone enough that you WOULD do anything for him?
Mom:You need to stop that. I taught you to be stronger than this. You don't NEED any guy. Where's your independence? You let people take advantage of you so much, what's wrong with you? You need to be bigger than that. The next guy, don't let him hurt you. If he pushes you over, you push him out on the street. My daughter doesn't deserve that.
When a girl tells you she doesn’t trust the girls you’re around or talk to, believe her. & don’t doubt her trust in you. Because the thing that guys don’t realize is that girls know what other girls are capable of. You tell your girl ”Oh, she’s just being friendly” but your girl knows it’s flirting. Sometimes, your girl wishes you would just tell other girls to fuck off ‘cause you got a girl, ‘cause it’s not you she doesn’t trust, it’s them.